SESSION 14:  WRAP-UP DISCUSSIONS

 

 

I.  Who are you?  Poll class and write on board.

          a. identity = how you measure who you are in relation to others, rank, valuable characteristics, power

          b. race, sex, physical status, class and sexual orientation

 

II. When  A  meets  B , what tells them how to act towards each other?

 

          a.  What do they have to assess?    Power, expectations

          b.  What signs indicate whether someone has more, less or equal power?

 

 

III.  Who is at the top?

 

          Race           Gender       Physical               Class           Sexual

                                                  Status                                    Orientation

 

          White                   Male           Healthy                Rich           Heterosexual

                                                & Young

 

 

          People        Females      Older People,          Poor,               Gay, Bisexual,

          of Color                        People with                   Homeless       Transgendered

                                                Disabilities,

                                                  Children

 

Discourse:

 

          Racism       Sexism        Able-bodyism     Eliteism      Heterosexism

                                                  Ageism                                  Homoprejudice

 

 

 

IV   What is the price for being at the top? 

          a. What do we gain and what do others lose?  (unearned privilege, unequal distribution of resources)

          b. What do we lose?  (blindness to the suffering of others, justice)

          c.  Example:  Gays.  What do we gain as hets by the social idea that we are superior?

 

 

V     Feeling bad, guilty, sorry, is not the answer.

          a. Pity demeans the victims, sees them as damaged.

          b. See it for what it is.  All the forces at work in our society.

          c.  See all human beings as whole in spite of their suffering.  Accept what they teach us.

          d.  Those at the top need humility, compassion, consideration.

 

VI    This system was constructed over hundreds of years, but is maintained today by many forces

          a.  Should counselors challenge and deconstruct this oppressive social system?

          b.  Should counselors challenge and deconstruct clients’ social identities?

                   1.  When yes?   (When it is part of their dilemna)

                   2.  When no?   (When doing so might harm them)